Thursday, 13 March 2008

  • Gravity

    Can't get John Mayer out of my head.

    Gravity is working against me
    And gravity wants to bring me down
    Oh, I'll never know what makes this man
    With all the love that his heart can stand
    Dream of ways to throw it all away

    I'm not the biggest John Mayer fan, but lately Gravity has been resonating with me.  The song speaks to the temptation in our lives, whether our maladaptive tendencies to make a mess of things, or the weakness that leads us to give up on life altogether.

    Gravity is working against me
    And gravity wants to bring me down
    Oh, twice as much ain't twice as good
    And can't sustain like one half could
    It's wanting more that's gonna send me to my knees

    It's ironic that our pursuit of happiness, the so-called hedonistic treadmill, is what keeps us so wanting, so unsatisified.  We convince ourselves that to be happy, we need to do well in school, find a career worth pursuing, fully pay off our loans -- find "the one" -- but after we manuever each jump, we set our sights on another hurdle.

    As Alfred D'Souza once said:

    For a long time it had seemed to me that life was about to begin -- real life. But there was always some obstacle in the way, something to be gotten through first, some unfinished business, time still to be served, a debt to be paid. Then life would begin. At last it dawned on me that these obstacles were my life.

    Though my favorite quote, I somehow lost sight of its message.  Its warning is ominous: learn to be happy with your current situation, or risk never being happy.  It's hard to kick old habits, but I'll try, I'll try.

    Truly yours,

    .taintedwine
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