Thursday, 14 February 2008

  • And Then We Change

    I recently found myself staring blankly at a book I had plucked off my shelf.  I remembered how I used to absorb every bit of text around me.  It's amazing how life changes so much and without warning, such that when we spin around and try to salvage some remnant, the futility of the exercise can be heard laughing far off in the distance.

    Like the tree-rings of a Redwood, each holiday season might be used to gauge human growth.  Two years ago, I spent Christmas with my ex's family.  A year ago, I spent Christmas with my own family, with much hope for the future.  This year, I spent Christmas alone, and without much hope for anything.  One might say it's a sign of maturity.

    What saddens me is the way we move on from the past, from the people we once cared about.  As the recent passing of Heath Ledger would indicate, we have no control over when we go.  One moment we're still holding a grudge against someone, and the next, they're gone and we'd apologize if they would only come back.  Carpe diem.

    Music captivates me, if only because so little else does.  Aside from the occasional surprise (see Veronica Mars, and cardboard), everything is just meh, and superbly so.  I need to find a new passion in life, my raison d’être.  It has become evident that just being there for my two younger brothers isn't enough.  I need something for myself.

    I've always been a dreamer
    I've had my head among the clouds
    Well now that I'm coming down
    Won't you be my solid ground?

    -- Sway // The Perishers

    I remain truly yours,

    .taintedwine

Comments (4)

  • Missy_So

    Isn't it scary to be maturing, things you once found amusing aren't all that anymore. As long as we have the passion to find something new. I'm sure you will, too!

  • aPpLeOfyuRi
    *hugs*

    Spending Christmas alone doesn't mean a sign of maturity. : (
    It means your lazy butt got lonely!
    I want to spend time with my coolest friend this summer.
    If you're not busy of course.

  • veryuhgly

    really. i don't recall subscribing to you.. ha ha.

    sounds like you live near ctown?

  • aPpLeOfyuRi

    Yes Jon I still want your address. I only have your old address.

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